A New Culture
for men who know there is more
We help men lead themselves, their families, and their communities by growing across all Six Pillars of Self Leadership.
What is
The Grounded Man?
You’ve built the life on the outside, the branches that everyone can see - career, family, home.
But without strong roots, even the tallest trees cannot withstand the storm.
It’s time to build your life on the inside, and that's where this community will help you.
The Grounded Man is a community for men who refuse to keep living on autopilot, and know they have more to offer this world.
Be the man your family, your brothers, and your community can trust.
Through the Six Pillars of Self Leadership - Physical, Mental, Emotional, Relational, Financial, and Spiritual Health - we are a training grounds for men to live with integrity, devotion, and fire.
Step into the Arena. Together We Rise.
The Six Pillars of
Self Leadership
Physical Health
A body that can hold more life.
Mental Health
A focused mind even under pressure.
Emotional Health
Regulated and expressed without leakage.
Relational Health
Trust built with Self, family, and community.
Financial Health
Money that serves your mission.
Spiritual Health
Lead from Soul, rather than Ego.
Not Sure Where to Start?
Not Sure Where
to Start?
1.
Get the
Self Leadership
Starter Kit
Learn the foundation of Self Leadership, reconnect to your centre, and begin the Intro to Self practice.
2.
Take the
Self Leadership Quiz
A quick diagnostic across the Six Pillars. Get your strengths, your gaps, and your next moves in fminutes.
3.
Join the Brotherhood
Step into the Arena. Access our free Discord community where 100+ men are committed to growth, challenge, accountability, and Self Leadership.
Every man thinks he knows himself.
Few are willing to prove it.
Our Self Leadership Quiz will expose your strengths and weaknesses across our Six Pillars of Self Leadership.
Take it if you’re ready to know the truth.
Our Commitment to You
We have the tools, the resources, and the community to transform your life.
All you need is the courage to step in.
What You'll Build Inside the Arena:
Authority Over Self
A clear code, clean boundaries, and a word that can be trusted.
Leadership at Home
The presence and dependability your partner and children need.
Brotherhood that Sharpens You
Honest feedback, real accountability, and celebration without performance.
Capacity Under Pressure
The ability to regulate emotions, hold chaos, and choose wise action.
Purpose in Motion
The discipline to turn vision into habits, projects, and service.
What We Do at
The Grounded Man
Self Leadership isn’t theory.
It’s lived. Practiced. Forged.
Inside The Grounded Man, we meet (in-person and online) every week in a space designed for men to grow two essential energies:
FIRE
Building Your Quiver
Fire is action.
It’s discipline, skills, challenge, and growth.
When we enter the Fire, we focus on developing the tools and abilities a modern man needs like communication, nervous system regulation, leadership, integrity, purpose, accountability.
We regularly “Build Your Quiver” (giving your more tools to draw from) so you become more capable, more grounded, and more effective in your life.
This is where you grow.
WATER
Sharpening Your Sword
Water is presence.
It’s emotional depth, vulnerability, and connection.
When we enter the Water, we sit and hold council together. This is where masks fall and strength deepens. This is where we learn to hold ourselves, and hold each other.
We "Sharpen Your Sword" by refining what you already have and what you are experiencing through honesty, accountability, and celebration.
This is where you deepen.
The Grounded Man is the Middle Path.
The balance between Fire and Water.
Strength with softness.
Discipline with devotion.
Presence with purpose.
Power with heart.
You don’t need to choose one.
The Grounded Man stands in both.
Men Who Have Stepped Into the Arena
You don’t need another program. You need a brotherhood for life.
The Grounded Man is a living culture. Men have chosen to belong here, to be sharpened here, and to lead from here. This is not about attending once and moving on. It’s about stepping into a community that keeps calling you higher, again and again.
These are the voices of men who said yes to the Arena.
"This group is a priceless currency"
"This community has changed my life in more ways than can be described enough. The primary being a community to feel connected, to have relationships that develop meaningfully, with richness, depth and significance. It adds quality to my life as a man, and around all other relationships. The benefit in this group and community is a priceless currency."
- Neil
"An absolutely transformative community"
"TGM is an absolutely transformative community of growth, learning, and support for men. Whether you are on top of the world, or at rock bottom, there is something you can learn from this group."
- Jon
"The benefits are undeniable."
"Life force runs very powerfully through this community. It calls for action, compassion, release, growth, brotherhood, accountability, freedom, honesty, integrity. I plugged into this force in 2023 and the benefits of being a member of this group are undeniable."
- Jelle
This Brotherhood deepens.
Principles of the Modern Man
I stand as a man devoted to the path of Self Leadership.
I choose presence for myself, for my brothers, and for the world I touch.
I commit to excellence in my craft, my relationships, and my character.
I embrace strength with vulnerability, knowing that courage is born in truth.
I live with purpose, guided by vision and fueled by devotion.
I seek relentless growth, facing my weaknesses to forge greater strength.
I honor myself as I am today, while walking boldly toward change.
I act with integrity and take responsibility for my words, my actions, and their impact.
I serve the greater good of everyone, building a world where trust, safety, and love can thrive.
And so it is.
Your Next Step
This is a new culture of men who stand tall, because their roots run deep. Men who strip away the masks, and step into the fire to find their truth.
The world doesn’t need more men hiding behind comfort or chasing approval.
It needs men who are clear, dependable, and alive with purpose.
Men who lead their families with love.
Men who protect their communities with strength.
Men who live from Soul, not from Ego.
Brother, this is your invitation.
The Arena is here.
The question is, will you step in?
Ground in the Darkness. Flourish in the Light.
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