A New Culture

for men who know there is more

You’ve built the life on the outside.

Checked the boxes, but it's still not right.


Now, it’s time to build your life on the inside. And that's where this community will help you.


Be the man your family, your brothers, and your community can trust.

What is

The Grounded Man?

The Grounded Man is a community for men who know they have more to offer this world.

We are setting a new standard for masculinity that operates on a system we call Self Leadership. This is a revolutionary model of living where men take their power back into their own hands and embody what it means to serve, protect, and lead their lives with heart and soul, in every area.

Through our Six Pillars of Self Leadership - Physical, Mental, Emotional, Relational, Financial, and Spiritual Health - we are a training grounds for Men to live with integrity, devotion, and fire.

Here, strength walks with vulnerability, resilience with compassion, and leadership with love.

The Grounded Man is not a space to perform more, but a space to become more.

Step into the Arena.

Together We Rise.

The Core of Our Community

The Six Pillars of

Self Leadership

Physical Health

A capable, resilient body that can hold more life.

Mental Health

A focused mind that can choose wisely under pressure.

Emotional Health

Regulated, expressed, and connected power, without leakage.

Relational Health

Trust built with your Self, with your family, and with your brothers.

Financial Health

Sovereignty and stewardship. Your money serves your mission.

Spiritual Health

A rich and connected life that is led by Soul, rather than by Ego.

Not Sure Where

to Start?

1.

Take the Self

Leadership Quiz

It's a quick diagnostic across your Physical, Mental, Emotional, Relational, Financial, and Spiritual Health. Get your strengths, your gaps, and your next moves in five minutes.

2.

Access Our Free Resources and Community

Unlock trainings, tools, and our Discord community where over 100+ men are walking the path of Self Leadership.

3.

Step Into the Arena

Choose your next challenge: in-person and online groups, workshops and retreats, or one-to-one guidance. Commit.

Show up. Together We Rise.

Every man thinks he knows himself.

Few are willing to prove it.


Our Self Leadership Quiz will expose your strengths and weaknesses across our Six Pillars of Self Leadership.


Take it if you’re ready to know the truth.

This quiz is intended to help you, and will also help US to SERVE YOU even better.

Plus you'll gain access to a ton of free resources and a community that will support you on your journey.

Our Commitment to You

We create the Arena for you to transform your life.


We have the tools, the resources, and the community to support your journey.
All you need is the courage to step in.

When you do, you’ll gain:

  • Authority Over Self

    A clear code, clean boundaries, and a word that can be trusted.

  • Leadership at Home

    The presence and dependability your partner and children need.

  • Brotherhood that Sharpens You

    Honest feedback, real accountability, and celebration without performance.

  • Capacity Under Pressure

    The ability to regulate emotions, hold chaos, and choose wise action.

  • Purpose in Motion

    The discipline to turn vision into habits, projects, and service.

Men Who Have Stepped Into the Arena

You don’t need another program. You need a brotherhood for life.

The Grounded Man is a living culture. Men have chosen to belong here, to be sharpened here, and to lead from here. This is not about attending once and moving on. It’s about stepping into a community that keeps calling you higher, again and again.

These are the voices of men who said yes to the Arena.

"This group is a priceless currency"

"This community has changed my life in more ways than can be described enough. The primary being a community to feel connected, to have relationships that develop meaningfully, with richness, depth and significance. It adds quality to my life as a man, and around all other relationships. The benefit in this group and community is a priceless currency."

- Neil

"An absolutely transformative community"

"TGM is an absolutely transformative community of growth, learning, and support for men. Whether you are on top of the world, or at rock bottom, there is something you can learn from this group."

- Jon

"The benefits are undeniable."

"Life force runs very powerfully through this community. It calls for action, compassion, release, growth, brotherhood, accountability, freedom, honesty, integrity. I plugged into this force in 2023 and the benefits of being a member of this group are undeniable."

- Jelle

This Brotherhood does not end. It deepens.

Step into the Arena.

Our Code

I stand as a man devoted to the path of Self Leadership.


I choose presence for myself, for my brothers, and for the world I touch.


I commit to excellence in my craft, my relationships, and my character.


I embrace strength with vulnerability, knowing that courage is born in truth.


I live with purpose, guided by vision and fueled by devotion.


I seek relentless growth, facing my weaknesses to forge greater strength.


I honor myself as I am today, while walking boldly toward change.


I act with integrity and take responsibility for my words, my actions, and their impact.


I serve the greater good of everyone, building a world where trust, safety, and love can thrive.

And so it is.

MEET THE visionary

Hey, I'm Braedyn!

I’m Braedyn Stockfish, the Visionary Leader here at The Grounded Man, and a brother on this path with you.

For most of my life, I looked strong on the outside while secretly fighting battles inside. I struggled with addictions, scarcity, shame, numbness, and the quiet ache of not living as the man I knew I could be.

I’ve been through the fire.

Men’s work, parts work (IFS), therapeutic shamanism, emotional process work, plant medicine, sweat, prayer, and brotherhood have been integral parts of my journey that have helped forge me into who I am today.

Not perfect. Not finished. But grounded, devoted, and alive with purpose.

Now I dedicate my life to guiding other men to discover the same: a life of intimacy, integrity, and impact.

The Grounded Man isn’t a brand or a program, it’s a brotherhood and a way of life. We’re building a culture where men rise together, live by a Code, and embody Self Leadership in every arena: physical, mental, emotional, relational, financial, and spiritual.

If you’re reading this, you’re not here by accident. Something in you already knows you belong here. Follow that whisper.

Step into the Arena.

Your Next Step

We are creating a new culture where men step into their power, strip away the masks, and step into the fire of Self Leadership.

The world doesn’t need more men hiding, numbing, or performing.
It needs men who are clear, dependable, and alive with purpose.
Men who lead their families with love.
Men who protect their communities with strength.
Men who live from Soul, not from Ego.

Brother, this is your invitation.


The Arena is here.


The question is, will you step in?

Ground in the Darkness. Flourish in the Light.

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